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The naked truth of raising boys.

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Watch, listen, and learn as Lisa Bevere and Havilah Cunnington share what they've learned about mothering boys.

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A downloadable workbook that guides you through the course and provides practical steps for raising your sons.

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Lisa Bevere

For years Lisa Bevere was the only woman in a household of five men, so she gets it. As a Sicilian mother of four boys with a husband who constantly traveled, she often found herself flying solo. Having learned many things the hard way, Lisa is passionate about sharing her mistakes and insights with the next generation of mothers. A New York Times best-selling author, her books are in the hands of millions worldwide. Lisa and her husband John, who’s also a best-selling author and teacher, are the founders of Messenger International.

Havilah Cunnington

In addition to slaying dragons, Havilah is a wife, mom, author, communicator, and friend. She is a pastor at Bethel Church, the director of Moral Revolution, and founder of Truth to Table. Recently, she began online Bible studies hoping to inspire the world from her kitchen table and reaching thousands through her books. Havilah's greatest joy is spending time with her husband, Ben, and their four young sons: Judah, Hudson, Grayson, and Beckham.

You have what it takes.

Mothering boys is one of the most challenging things you will ever do. It can be utterly exhausting at times. As a mother of four boys-turned-men, I remember going to bed with a never-ending to-do list, often feeling like I just didn’t measure up. So if your boys push you to the max at times, you are not alone.

Trust me when I say I get it. I’ve been there, done that, got the T-shirt, more times than I can count. Over the years, I found myself wishing there was a manual to show me how to do things well.

That’s why my friend Havilah Cunnington and I put together the Moms of Men course. We wanted to give you what we wish we had. Having eight rambunctious boys between us, we learned (and are still learning) many things the hard way—but you don’t have to. We sat at the kitchen table, put our mom t-shirts on, poured some coffee, turned on the cameras, and wrestled through the most pressing and difficult questions about raising boys. We open up about both our successes and failures, offering our stories as a guide to help you navigate this challenging season.

We tackle just about every topic imaginable, including identity, discipline, dating, schoolwork, sexuality, purity, and more, sharing the tools we picked up along the way to help you raise your boys into men of God.

Mothers, you can do this. You have what it takes. And you don’t have to travel this road by yourself—we’re here to help. We’re not perfect moms, but with God’s help, we have done it well—and we want to share what we’ve learned with you.

Together, we won’t just survive motherhood—we’ll thrive in it.




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Table Conversations

The Table Conversations are five additional videos where Lisa and her four sons unpack ways to apply the lessons to your life. These conversations include practical tips and wisdom on topics such as sexual purity, identity, and discipline.


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Q: Will I receive this resource in the mail?

A: No. Moms of Men is 100% digital, meaning you will have access via the web when you purchase. 

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A: You can have up to 50 people access the course through the Group option. This is a great option for small groups, businesses, and churches. The Individual option is for individual or household use. Note: If you would like to have more than 50 people go through the course, please contact us for special pricing.

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